Sunday, 18 May 2025

L..........onely

May 18, 2025 0 Comments

The terrible feeling of Left alone.....................



Feeling dejected,alone even when surrounded by many often makes us feel alone,not so alive mentally which tends to make us isolated physically....


A job,

some exam results,

 marriage,

business deal,

 loss of our closed ones,

breakup from our loved ones,

getting our trust broken by our own people,....etc 


Everyone had a thorn in their lives my dear,you are not alone


The length and size of thorn might differ individually.


But, it's there enough to poke our spirit to either make or break our real self .......


you are worthy to fight for yourself!


Heavy heart,

Feeling lost,

Emotional Pressure,

Crack down,

Sadness overload.


Its completely okay,to not to be okay,

Just accept it.


Everyone is suffering from this hard phase of life where usually we disconnect from others and connect from ourselves,

 where alot of emotions in our heart persist and we all wanna share everything that how are we experiencing hard,

 it's difficult to say something from someone, heart wants to say everything but lips remains closed and heart in a suffocated condition.


 Inside the soul a heavy storm is going on. 


We all have lost the ability to listen someone carefully ,rather wants to say something .


We want to tell that how difficult is to wake up early on a particular time without thinking about seasons, 

it's difficult to be disciplined,

 two simple pairs of clothes,

 forgot to style and well dressed ourselves, 

no friends,

 no party, 

healthy food etc.


 Sometimes it seems life has become dreary . 


All is inside because of the fear that no one can relate with your life, no one can understand you.


You are right infact it's true. 


But suddenly a thought comes in my mind when I realised why do you forget that for achieving something great,

 you'll have to loose more, 

why do you forget that everyone has no guts to do the same,

 why do you forget that without sacrifices you couldn't reacher greater heights.

 

So, how dare you to look yourself down, 

how dare you to feel low , 

how dare you to consider that you are unworthy, 

how dare you to compare yourself from someone else.


Nobody knows we'll succeed or not but I can definitely say that we all have become one step more special than others, 

nobody have guts to stick on the same table after failure........ but, you did it.


 We all are together in this journey okay you are not alone.


You are great, 

you are warrior,

You are the greatest pillar you coukd lean on in times of distress,

You are enough for yourself as a listener,comforter, motivation,support,strength and everything,


You Are Never Alone!


you are in phase of moulding your self into a best version of yourself,

where the future you would be grateful for all these struggles you had overcome.


You are my super hero or heroine, you all are the best version of yourself !!!!!


Take care of your mental health which automatically reflects in your physical health


Mental health matters.......


If you want,do feel free to share your pain here my dear friend.


As,sharing is caring 



By,

Shaina...

Sunday, 4 May 2025

Fish story

May 04, 2025 0 Comments


The Japanese have always loved fresh fish.


 But, the water close to Japan has not held many fish for decades. 


So, to feed the Japanese population, fishing boats got bigger and went farther than ever.


 The further the fishermen went, the longer it took to bring the fish.


If the return trip took more time, the fish were not fresh.


To solve this problem, fish  companies installed freezers on their boats. 


They would catch the fish  and freeze them at sea.


Freezers allowed the boats to go farther and stay longer. 


However, the Japanese could taste the difference between fresh and frozen fish and they did not like the taste of frozen fish 


The frozen fish brought a lower price.


So, fishing companies installed fish tanks. 


They would catch the fish  and stuff them in the tanks, fin to fin. 


After a little thrashing around, they were tired, dull, and lost their fresh-fish taste. 


The fishing industry faced an impending crisis! But today, they get fresh-tasting fish to Japan. 


How did they manage...? 




To keep the fish tasting fresh, the Japanese fishing companies still put the fish in the tanks but with a small shark


The fish are challenged and hence are constantly on the move. 


The challenge they face keeps them alive and fresh!



Have you realized that some of us are also living in a pond but most of the time tired and dull....? 


Basically in our lives, sharks  are new challenges to keep us active. 


Your challenges keep you energized. 


Put a shark  in your tank and see how far you can really go......




By,

Shaina...

Friday, 2 May 2025

Logic to a Happy life

May 02, 2025 0 Comments

 Lovely Logic's To A Happy Life: 

1. Make Peace with your Past so it doesn't spoil your Present.


2. What others Think of you is None Of your Business.


3. Time Heals Almost Everything, Give the Time, Some Time.


4. No one is the Reason of your Happines. Except You yourself. 


5.Don't compare your Life with others, You have No Idea what their journey is all about.


6. Stop Thinking too much, Its Alright not to know all the Answers.


7. Smile, you don't own all the Problems In the world.




Stay happy 

Keep smiling

Take care my frnduuuuu



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Shaina...

Devil to deliver you to heaven!

May 02, 2025 0 Comments

 ‘Why is it that some people can resolve the most complicated problems really easily, whilst others agonize over every tiny crisis and end up drowning in a glass of water?’ I asked.

Ivan replied by telling the following story:


‘Once upon a time, there was a man who had been the soul of kindness all his life.


When he died, everyone assumed that he would go straight to Heaven, for the only possible place for a good man like him was Paradise.


The man wasn’t particularly bothered about going to Heaven, but that was where he went.


Now in those days, service in heaven was not all that it might be.


The reception desk was extremely inefficient, and the girl who received him gave only a cursory glance through the index cards before her and when she couldn’t find the man’s name, she sent him straight to Hell.


And in Hell no one asks to check your badge or your invitation, for anyone who turns up is invited in. The man entered and stayed.


Some days later, Lucifer stormed up to the gates of Heaven to demand an explanation from St Peter.


“What you’re doing is pure terrorism!” he said. 

“You sent that man down into Hell, and he’s completely undermining me! Right from the start, there he was listening to people, looking them in the eye, talking to them.


“And now everyone’s sharing their feelings and hugging and kissing. 

That’s not the sort of thing I want in Hell! Please, let him into Heaven!’


When Ivan had finished telling the story, he looked at me fondly and said:


‘Live your life with so much love in your heart that if,

 by mistake,

 you were sent to Hell, 

the Devil himself would deliver you up to Paradise.’





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Shaina...

Put it down!

May 02, 2025 0 Comments

 A psychologist walked around a room while teaching stress management to an audience. 

As she raised a glass of water, everyone expected they’d be asked the “half empty or half full” question. 


Instead, with a smile on her face, 

she inquired: ”How heavy is this glass of water?”


Answers called out ranged from 8 gm to 20 gm


She replied,

 “The absolute weight doesn’t matter. 

It depends on how long I hold it. 

If I hold it for a minute, it’s not a problem. 

If I hold it for an hour, I’ll have an ache in my arm. 

If I hold it for a day, my arm will feel numb and paralyzed.

 In each case, the weight of the glass doesn’t change, but the longer I hold it, the heavier it becomes.”


She continued, 

“The stresses and worries in life are like that glass of water.

 Think about them for a while and nothing happens. 

Think about them a bit longer and they begin to hurt. 

And if you think about them all day long, you will feel paralyzed – incapable of doing anything.”


It’s important to remember to let go of your stresses. 

As early in the evening as you can, put all your burdens down. 

Don’t carry them through the evening and into the night. 

Remember to put the glass down!



By,

Shaina...

Hope....

May 02, 2025 0 Comments

Hello busy people,

Hope you guys had a wonderful day.


“When you plant seeds in the

garden, you don’t dig them up

every day to see if they have

sprouted yet. You simply water

them and clear away the weeds;

you know that the seeds will grow

in time. Similarly, just do your daily

practice and cultivate a kind heart.

Abandon impatience and instead be

content creating the causes for

goodness; the results will come

when they’re ready.”



By,

Shaina...

Service...

May 02, 2025 0 Comments
The late king of my community had ten wild dogs. 



He used them to torture and eat any of his servants who made a mistake. 

One of the servants gave an opinion which was wrong, and the king didn’t like it at all.

 So he ordered that the servant be thrown to the dogs.

The servant said, “I served you for ten years, and you do this to me? Please give me ten days before throwing me to those dogs!”

The king agreed.

In those ten days, the servant went to the guard who looks after the dogs and told him he would like to serve the dogs for the next ten days. 

The guard was baffled but agreed, and the servant started feeding the dogs, cleaning for them, bathing them, and providing all sorts of comfort for them.

When the ten days were over, the king ordered
that the servant be thrown to the dogs for his
punishment. 

When he was thrown in, they were all amazed to see the ravenous dogs only licking the feet of the servant!

The king, baffled at what he was seeing, 
said,
”What has happened to my dogs?”

The servant replied, 
"I served the dogs for only
ten days, and they didn’t forget my service. 
Yet I served you for a whole ten years and you forgot all, at my first mistake!"

The king realised his mistake and ordered the
servant to be set free.

This post is a message to all those who forget
the good things a person did for them as soon as the person makes a mistake towards them.

 Don’t put out the history that is filled with good
because of a mistake you don’t like.


By,
Shaina...